Understanding your Partners Sexual Desires

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Understanding Your Partner’s Sexual Desires

When you want to better understand your partner’s sexual desires, you need to listen to them. You and your partner will often have your own personal sexual desires that you do not tell your partner about because you are embarrassed. There is no need for this. If you feel comfortable enough with your partner and
they you, then there is no limit to the ways that you can sexually please each other.

Being Open

It all starts with you being open and honest with one another. This typically means telling them what you like and what you don’t like. When you start small you will start to feel more comfortable with what you tell them and what you don’t. Your partner will enjoy knowing how to properly please you and will want to open up about how you can return the favour.

Acting Them Out

When it comes to acting out these desires, you need to not be embarrassed. While this is typically more easily said than done you will find that it is a great way to get closer to your partner. Start with a fantasy that you feel more comfortable acting out and then go from there.

Being Comfortable

It may be in your best interests to have a drink or two before you begin. This will make you both more comfortable and a lot braver when it comes to the things that you are willing to try. Just be sure that you don’t have too much to drink as it can ruin the evening.